Hypothetical Questions For My Wedding Day Or Yours
My father always told me that the best way to know if my wedding is going to be right is to ask myself hypothetical questions. He always said that he wanted his little girl to be absolutely sure about her big day and the best way to do this is to create insane questions that will help me to have perspective. Well my main thing was I wanted to enjoy my big day. I wanted to get energized by it, not feel like I was going to be drained by it.
I’m sure there are a lot of ladies out there that have the same dilemma as me. So when you think about some of the questions I’m going to go over I want you to take them lightly and have fun with them. Here are some of the hypothetical questions I came up with:
If I were someone wanting to go to a party and my wedding were looked at as a party, then would I charge money for the drinks or would drinks be free so that everyone can get as smashed as possible?
If someone had to choose between coming to my wedding versus going to the wedding of someone else, then why would they choose my wedding over someone else’s? What would it be about mines that made people choose me instead?
If my wedding were going to be a 30 for 30 one day, then would it be something I looked back on fondly or would it be one of those cautionary tale type 30 for 30 episodes? Would people gather around to watch for all the wrong reasons or for all the right reasons?
If my wedding represented a professional sports franchise, then which one would it be seen as? Would it be seen as the high flying, high scoring fun team that everyone wants to watch or would it be seen as the slow, boring defensive team everyone struggles to keep their eyes open for?
How excited am I about the wedding venue I’ve chosen? If I were to get hurt and only had one shot to use that venue, then would I be willing to say screw it, I’ll have them stroll me down the aisle on a stretcher before I lose my spot at this venue.
Is my wedding going to provide the sort of entertainment I want? I’m not just talking music and dancing. Maybe I want someone to roast my fiancée a little because he likes that sort of thing or maybe I can decide to hire a tribute band for one of my favorite bands “The Cure”.
Are people going to enjoy the food at my wedding more than they enjoy the actual wedding? I’m not sure how I’d feel about this. I want people to remember the food, but I also want them to take in the eye candy that’s going to be me in my angelic wedding dress. The awesome food can just be a bonus.
If my fiancée screwed up his vows, then should I hold that against him or should I decide to just screw up mines on purpose as well just to have a tit for tat? I’d want everything to be as equal as possible going into the marriage so if he screws up then I should as well?
All of these are hypotheticals of course, but I know some people might take them more serious than what they should. My answers to all of these are private, but I’ll certainly be willing to share some of the answers with my girlfriends. I’m sure they’ll especially enjoy question number 5.